CTRN™ LIFE COACHING
The
Six Human Needs
All human behavior is driven by the instinct to fulfill
one or more of six fundamental human needs.
Unhappiness,
emotional distress and all dysfunctional behavior arises from
an individual's inability to
find a consistent
way to meet his/her Six Human Needs, in a positive
way.
A life of fulfillment requires all six needs are met
in a positive way on a consistent basis.
THE SIX NEEDS ARE:
Love & Connection
The need to feel love from and for, and connection
with others. The need to bond, experience intimacy,
to feel
oneness.
Significance
The need to feel that you have meaning to others,
you are unique, special, important. (NB: potential
conflict
with
the need for
Love & Connection)
Certainty or Comfort
The need for the feeling that everything is settled,
secure, and that there are no nasty surprises
around the corner.
Uncertainty or Variety
The precise opposite, and potentially in conflict
with the need for Certainty. The need to feel
that life is
interesting,
diverse,
exciting and challenging.
Everyone, without exception,
finds a way to get these first four needs fulfilled, even if
it is
in a very
low quality
and sometimes
negative way. For instance, the compelling,
overwhelming need for Love & Connection
explains why someone will stay in an abusive
relationship. As terrible as the abuse is, it
is a form
of connection. Without appropriate help the
individual chooses to stay, over the uncertainty
of leaving, with the fear of living
without any kind of connection.
The fifth and
sixth needs are not met by everyone, yet their
consistent attainment is the key to
a life of
fulfillment. Survival is possible,
indeed common, without fulfilling these two
needs. The life
you want and deserve, however, is not.
Growth
The need for the feeling that we are growing,
intellectually, spiritually, physically…
Contribution
The need to feel that we are giving of ourselves
for the benefit of other living things – that
we are contributing to life itself…Everyone
has their own unique requirements for the
fulfillment of each of the six human needs.
The degree to which those requirements are
being met in a positive, high quality and
sustainable way defines the overall quality
of life
As soon as you start CTRN Life Coaching
you'll make detailed assessment
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