Symptoms: Friends of the Fear
Every case of phobia of falling in love is a little different.
Why? Because the core of the problem – the patterns of thinking, the images, movies, sounds and dialog that are internally associated with love – are different in each person.
But while the ‘internal representations’ as they are called are different from person to person there are a number of symptoms which are common to many philophobes:
- A feeling of uncontrollable anxiety when you think about or are exposed to love
- The feeling that you must do everything possible to avoid love
- The inability to function normally because of your anxiety
- Often, the knowledge that your fears are unreasonable or exaggerated but feeling powerless to control them
Philophobic symptoms can be mental, emotional and physical. The anxiety and fear can go from mild feelings of apprehension to a full-blown panic attack.
Typically, the closer you are to what you’re afraid of, the greater your fear will be. You can test the severity of your problem with this 2-minute online phobia of falling in love test.
But because the fear is a physical response to patterns of thinking about love and not the actual love almost all people with phobia of falling in love can create a very strong reaction just by using their mind.
> For help chaging these patterns of thinking, read this article How to Overcome Phobia of Falling in Love.
- Obsessive Thoughts
- Difficulty thinking about anything other than the fear
- Really bad images and/or movies of love
- Feelings of unreality or of being detached from yourself
- Fear of losing control or going crazy
- Fear of fainting
- Anticipatory Anxiety: Persistent worrying about upcoming events that involve love
- Terror: A persistent and overwhelming fear of the same
- Desire to Flee: An intense instinct to leave the situation (which is tough when its purely in the mind)
While not generally experienced at the same time as phobia of falling in love episode, we find that overall when they think about their past, most clients have elevated levels of one or more of:
- Anger, Sadness, Fear, Hurt & Guilt
- Dizziness, shaking, palpitations.
- Shortness of breath or smothering sensation
- Palpitations, pounding heart, or accelerated heart rate
- Chest pain or discomfort
- Trembling or shaking
- Feeling of choking
- Nausea or stomach distress
- Feeling unsteady, dizzy, lightheaded, or faint
- Numbness or tingling sensations
- Hot or cold flashes
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Or learn more about Phobia of Falling in Love:
DefinitionPHOBIA OF FALLING IN LOVE: (philophobia and fear of being or falling in love)
1: phobia of falling in love: a persistent, abnormal, and unwarranted fear of love, despite conscious understanding by the phobic individual and reassurance by others that there is no danger. 2: phobia of falling in love: an extreme unwarranted fear and/or physical aversion to love.
OTHER NAMES FOR THISActually, the phobia name for Phobia of Falling in Love is called philophobia. Different people call it by different names of course:
– Fear Of Falling On Love
– Fear Of Being In Love
– Fear Of Love
– Falling In Love Fear
– Being In Love Fear
– Love Fear
– Falling In Love Phobia
– Being In Love Phobia
– Love Phobia
– Phobia Of Falling In Love
– Phobia Of Being In Love
– Phobia Of Love